Etiquette

Tipping and gifts, demystified

Small gestures, and how much they actually matter

This one causes quiet anxiety — people worry about getting it wrong in either direction. The truth is low-pressure: gestures of appreciation are welcome and never obligatory, and the spirit behind them matters more than the specifics.

Here is how to think about it without overthinking it.

Is a tip expected?

Not as a rule — what you agreed is what you agreed. But a gesture of appreciation for an evening you genuinely enjoyed is always well received, exactly as it would be for anyone whose work made your time better. It says thank you in a language everyone understands, and it is remembered.

Gifts

A small, thoughtful gift is a lovely touch and never required. If you bring one, keep it considerate and low-key rather than extravagant or overly personal — the thought is the point, not the price tag. Something pleasant and unfussy lands better than anything grand.

The real currency

Beyond money and gifts, the things most appreciated cost nothing: politeness, punctuality, cleanliness, and treating someone like a person. Those are what make you a favourite. Generosity of manner is remembered longer than generosity of wallet, and it is the surest way to a warm welcome next time.

Common questions

Will I seem cheap if I don't tip?

No. A tip is a bonus for an evening you loved, not an obligation. Being respectful, punctual and easy to be around matters far more than any extra, and costs nothing.

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