Terms of use

What the directory does

It publishes advertisements written by the people they describe, and it makes them findable. That is the whole service.

It is not an agency, an introduction service or a booking desk. Nothing is paid to the site by anyone arranging a meeting: there is no fee, no commission and no deposit. The site takes no part in what two adults agree between themselves, does not vouch for anyone, and cannot guarantee that a meeting will happen or that it will be as described.

Age

This site is for adults. Everyone advertising here must be 18 or over; the limit is enforced by the database, which will not accept a listing below that age at all.

If you are under 18, leave. If you believe someone advertising here is under 18, report the listing — that report suspends it at the moment it is filed, before anybody reads it.

What is not allowed

Advertising anyone other than yourself. Publishing photographs you do not have the right to publish. Presenting somebody else's pictures as your own. Any listing that involves a person who has not agreed to be there, or cannot agree.

From the visitor's side: harassment, threats, attempts to negotiate anything involving a minor or a person who has not consented, and automated collection of contact details from the site.

Removal and suspension

A listing can be closed by the person in it at any moment, in one action and without explanation. It can also be suspended by a moderator — on a report, or on our own initiative — and reports about coercion, a person under 18, or images published without consent take effect immediately rather than after review.

The site does not owe an explanation for a suspension, and does not promise to restore one.

Law

Everyone using this site is responsible for their own position under the law that applies to them. Nothing here is legal advice, and the site does not advise anyone on whether what they are arranging is lawful where they are.